No it's not. They shouldn't even have one open if they're with someone. I don't think they'd mind sacrificing a silly dating profile for you :] If they did then you'd seriously need to rethink who you're with. As I said though it shouldn't be a problem: therefore don't feel afraid to ask. Dating sites can always be re-opened ifthings didn't work out so it's not a huge sacrifice for them to make. Best of luck to you though in the future. I'm sure things will be just fine|||What is the point of going on a dating site? It is to meet someone. He has met someone and that person is you. He should be putting his energy toward his relationship with you, not checking out what else is out there responding to him through his account. This isn't the same as if a woman winked at him in passing, this is a direct method of potentially hooking up.
You should calmly tell him how you feel. Let him know in a non-confrontational way because you don't want him to automatically become defensive. However, if he still becomes defensive and refuses to do anything about it, then he isn't committed to you and good riddens. Who needs a man like that any way.|||It's not unreasonable to ask anything, but depending on the reason he has it then it might be unreasonable to expect it.
Also, if you happen to be of the mind that because you for something he should do it for you, then you will find that to be unreasonable. You can't use the "if he loves me then he'll do such and such" either, because if that were true then he could say if you loved him you wouldn't ask.
edit: From what little you write here it sounds like he still keeps it out of curiosity. I personally wouldn't care if that is why my partner did something.
The other two answers so far are what I expect from women because they can't fathom some guy doing something for any reason other than the one they would do it for. So because those women would be using that dating site to hook up with some guy then they think that is the reason and the only reason a guy would continue to have it. What insecurity. It's pretty lame to think a guy has to make his whole world about the woman he is with and not have anything outside of that, even for curiosity's sake. Sorry, but if he isn't doing anything except to keep tabs on what is going on, then it is no different than if he were checking out anything else. Do you give up your magazines and not watch your favorite shows if he isn't into the same thing? Would you think he should expect you to just because he had insecurities and not because you were doing something wrong?|||If I found my girlfriend using a dating website, I'd dump her!
Reason your partner is looking: He isn't happy with you and thinks there is room for improvement.
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